"invisible he; indivisible we"
Invisible is defined as: "Unable to be seen; not visible to the eye."
Synonyms of invisible are: "unseen - viewless - sightless - imperceptible and infinite."
Indivisible is defined as: "Not divisible; unable to be divided or separated."
To me, words are powerful. They express, show feeling and leave lasting impressions on a being.
When one truly believes they've met their soul mate, life is seen differently. We often are left convincing ourself we have and are currently with the one we are meant to grow and change with. This level of convincing, more often than not, is nothing more than a disillusioned fragmented ideal placed within our psyche by none other than mainstream societal beliefs. Conventional thinking and conformity. Because society, from the outside, looks within and tells us we are perfect for each other and so happy together, we succumb to others ideals often disregarding our heart and soul. We become comfortable with routine and making sure we deviate from our own self-respect, feeling of self-worth and wants or needs in an effort to make sure he or she is content with "our perfect world". Keeping this level of content in check in hopes to always make sure this person is happy. We find ourselves straying from our own happiness to keep the relationship at an even level of "perfectness" for everyone but ourselves. When did your happiness no longer become important? What will it take for you to realize your happiness does matter to someone? When... Did you start taking the life you have for granted?
The moment we realize this person we've been pretending to go through life with isn't and never has been in your equation of "we", everything becomes clearer. We can breathe deeper. We can dream sweeter. We can smile and laugh freely. This moment becomes an epiphany of life. This is the moment we free ourselves from the death tight grip of living up to society's social norms.
I experienced my life epiphany. I freed myself from the grip and took in a deep breath. I came to the realization my soul mate was not mine and he found me.
Invisible he; indivisible we...
I can only hope to breath for him, smile and laugh for him and dream sweeter because of he; my missing variable in my equation of we.
